if people calls us insensitive theres nothing we can do. but after all, shouldnt people want to know both sides of the story before pointing fingers? i mean, if this whole thing is about the secret between me and nette, then we really dont see the problem becos people ARE entitled to keep their own secrets. you say best friends should tell each other everything, but shouldnt best friends trust each other more? if you think the secret is about you, we swear its not. after all, we dont go bitching about other people in OUR blogs, do we? we dont even think this is an ''earthquake'', heck its not even a sandcastle. even though everyone's in your side, deep in your heart, you know the truth. if you think we're being mean here, we apologise. do you see us crying over it? plus, claire doesnt even know the secret but you dont see her acting the way you do. maybe it all started becos you think we're ignoring you. or maybe its becos of the blog entry you wrote. this is not an ignoring game. did we ever say we're ignoring you? we just needed time to cool off, not ignore you forever. we cant always give way to you, too, you know. every friendship is not exactly smooth-sailing, we all know we have our own idiosyncrasies. i admit, it was our fault to call you a crybaby, but it was not as if you did not call us anything mean, either. you know, we dont really appreciate being labelled as ''traitors or ''bulimic''. if you think we're insensitive and did not consider you feelings, have you really considered ours? surely you dont think that we derive JOY out of doing this? its not that we are ''immature'', even though only one of us have hit 15. some people stated that ''ignoring is no longer a usable threat''. we NEVER intended it to be a threat. we never started the ignoring thing. as we've mentioned, it was just entirely for us to cool off.


p.s, this post was not, in any way, an attempt to try to pull people on our side. we just genuinely feel that if we are going to be unfairly judged, people should at least hear OUR side of the story.

p.p.s: we were never really ignoring you, maybe you're just being overly-sensitive. theres a fine line between sensitivity, insensitivity, and OVER-sensitivity. if you really want things to be cleared, dont tell stuff to everyone BUT us. you can say it to our faces. tata.